Linda Furiya

Bento Box in the Heartland: My Japanese Girlhood in Whitebread America by Linda Furiya (2006, Seal Press, an imprint of Avalon Publishing Group) is a food memoir. I bought this book about four years ago, and finally got around to reading it.

Linda Furiya was born in a small, rural town in Indiana to Japanese parents. Furiya came of age in the 1970s and early 1980s, and for most of her school years, was the only Asian girl at her school. Not surprisingly, she felt a strong sense of not fitting in. Many of her memories are of food; such as the long trips that she and her family would make to the big city, with ice chests in the back of the car, to buy Japanese foods and fresh fish, to be later eaten Japanese style.

At times, I felt that this memoir might actually be a collection of the columns Furiya wrote for the San Franscisco Chronicle. Although there is no notification of anything having been previously published, it still felt like some of the stories overlapped. For instance, I found quite a few sentences began with “When I was eight years old….”

Feeling out of place because the parents are different in some way is not an unique type of memoir. However, I felt that the strongest part of Furiya’s memoir was when she discusses how her family often attended Cincinatti Japanese American Citizens League events. As she became a teenager, she began to be more conscious of interactions between the people and the stories they discussed, such as their World War II memories — some had the experience of being interred here in the United States; some came to the U.S. later.

Furiya says: “I should have stayed home the day I went to the last potluck dinner I’d ever attend. I was sixteen, much older than the children who were obligated to be there because they were too young to stay home alone”. She then tells us about Thomas and Mochiko, a couple at the potluck. Put it simply, Thomas is a creep (a white American) who treats his wife Mochiko, a war bride, like a servant; and then later he leers at the young Furiya. I was angry along with Furiya as she relates the story and how she felt unable to stand up to all of the outrageous comments Thomas was making. Her mom just says, “He’s just an old GI”.

Overall, though, in spite of not being totally seamless, Bento Box in the Heartland is a readable memoir, especially if you like “foodie” books. There are recipes throughout, some of which I want to try.… (more)