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The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life (original 2016; edition 2016)

by Mark Manson

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Self-Improvement. Nonfiction. HTML:

#1 New York Times Bestseller

Over 10 million copies sold

In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.

For decades, we've been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let's be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn't sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it isa dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let's-all-feel-good mindset that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.

Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.

There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.

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This book was recommended to me by my manager of all people. I had seen it around for a while but never really thought of picking it up. I've read too many self-improvement books that relied on 'language' to attract attention then delivered nothing really.

I was pleasantly surprised with this book.

The writing style isn't great but it gets the job done. There are some really good points presented throughout the chapters. So much so, that I've read the book three times over the last six months and have added to my list of books that I 'rinse and repeat' to remind myself of the points they present.

Now, for the reason I didn't give it 5-stars. Over the last three times I've read it, I found myself really excited and pleased with the first half of the book and then rushing through the second half.

The first half of the book spoke to me. I liked the flow and enjoyed the stories and examples. The second half, while presented some good points and presented some good examples, for some reason, I can't help but feel they didn't leave as much of an impact. They were a good read but not memorable enough for me. That could be because I needed to hear the first part more or could be because the flow isn't as well-designed as the first half.

Overall, I think you should give the book a read at least once. You will come out of it with some good ideas and advice.

P.S: I have many highlights from the book in my notes if you would like to get an idea. ( )
  JasmineHere | Jan 8, 2025 |
Mark Mason, he's not the world's greatest writer. He's not Oprah Winfry. He never claimed his book to help you out and become a personal example of success. A coffee-table book that simply asks you to consider the mentality "the house you buy is the house you repair".

Loads of padding and repetition and edgy fillers, yes. It was a fun read, I'd recommend it.

edit: I don't recommend this at all. ( )
  KnickKnackKittyKat | Dec 31, 2024 |
Starts strong, finishes quickly. Veers into squishier self-help territory midway through but finishes with heart-wrenching anecdotes. I'm going to re-read it. ( )
  DarthMab | Dec 30, 2024 |
It's a short, enjoyable read with a lot of points that will resonate with most people. I think anyone over thirty has likely already figured out for themselves what the book seeks to convey but I consider it worth a read nonetheless. If you want a deep, serious discussion of the psychology of happiness, you're better off with a well-reviewed psychology text. If you want a quick and easy read covering a lot of the same concepts in a humorous, tongue-in-cheek way, then give this book a go. ( )
  Xathras | Dec 26, 2024 |
It was a fine vacation read of stuff I already knew - had it not been vacation it might have lost a star. It was a novel way of presenting the theories - and I did appreciate that, though I think the construct was weighted down by the fact that "giving/not giving" a f#%$" have built-in connotations that are somewhat at odds with the author's use of them. And while this was fine for the first few chapters where he tackled this head-on, it made it harder to get his tortured point across in the later ones... ( )
  jawertman | Dec 23, 2024 |
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In this book Manson argues that once we stop trying to be "happy" all the time, and instead become extremely familiar with what deeply pains us, we will discover what truly makes us happy.
I appreciated Manson's brutal honesty and his tell-it-like-it-is attitude really spoke to me. He advocates the importance of embracing our true selves in a world obsessed with perfection.............
 

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Self-Improvement. Nonfiction. HTML:

#1 New York Times Bestseller

Over 10 million copies sold

In this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.

For decades, we've been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let's be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn't sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it isa dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let's-all-feel-good mindset that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up.

Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.

There are only so many things we can give a f**k about so we need to figure out which ones really matter, Manson makes clear. While money is nice, caring about what you do with your life is better, because true wealth is about experience. A much-needed grab-you-by-the-shoulders-and-look-you-in-the-eye moment of real-talk, filled with entertaining stories and profane, ruthless humor, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is a refreshing slap for a generation to help them lead contented, grounded lives.

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