I came across this book very much by accident 2 years ago. I was eating dinner at the Travelers Resturaunt, where you get a gently used book with your meal, think of it as a bookstore built into a resturant! Anyway, I was very new into my marriage, approx. 6 months, and was having difficulties with a feeling of entrapment and the loss of my personal self. After reading this book, everything became so clear to me. I didn't see marriage as an anchor anymore, I saw it as a way to show people all the things I am capable of. I wish others my age who going through the same problems I did, could read this book. This is the best book I have ever read. ( )