The conflicting opinions are usually derived from a previous experience or result. Unless I understand the fundamental part of the rationale I cannot support the client. The key here is to explain that why what has worked in past will not be applicable here or vice versa and then to provide evidences and data points to provide the point. I also share the examples of people who has similar background and same situation and how they dealt with it and what were the results. I then do the SWOT analysis of the situation. My role is to guide without bias, empowering clients to take ownership of their decisions. Together, we create actionable plans and provide ongoing support to help them thrive in their chosen path."

I help clients with conflicting opinions by starting with active listening to understand each person's perspective. I then encourage them to focus on shared goals and explore career paths that align with their combined strengths and interests. Using tools like career assessments or exploring real-life examples can provide clarity. I also guide them in considering the long-term impact of each option, helping them weigh the pros and cons objectively. By fostering open communication and focusing on their individual values and priorities, I assist them in reaching a decision that feels right for everyone involved.

One way that I find it helpful is to remind clients about paradoxes law, which says every amount of something has a certain similar amount in opposite side of it , if you watch a situation not pleasant enough, maybe you should change your perspective about it or watch as a third role from a different way, usually in this way most of my clients feels more comfortable and positive about their current situation and curious about other natural rules that remind them the other side of things , …

Lorsque des clients divergent sur un choix de carrière, je m’efforce de recentrer la discussion sur leurs valeurs profondes et leurs objectifs à long terme, clarifie les impacts des choix envisagés pour dégager des compromis rationnels, et propose des expérimentations limitées (comme des missions temporaires) pour tester les options sans engagement immédiat. Mon objectif est de cocréer une trajectoire alignée sur leurs attentes tout en favorisant une compréhension mutuelle.

I establish trust and then ask who is the decision maker in their personal relationship Ie. significant other. Then I make sure I am speaking to the decision maker. 😍